Some people fight and argue a lot and some people don’t.

Lately I have been an observer. 

I personally don’t like fighting and arguing.

-I have noticed that many times when two people argue it’s because they are mirroring each other. 

-They are actually arguing with the part of the other person. They don’t want to admit, that this part is most like them.

-The similarities that they have within each other come out at the same time.

Family, Friends & Couples.

Family:

When family argue, it’s ugly for us to witness because many times. They are arguing because of the similarities they don’t want to recognize in themselves. No one wants to admit they have a snarky side. As the saying goes family is family. 

Friends: 

When friends fight, it’s ugly for us to see because many times friendships end. But if they can overcome the anger and the situation. The bond of their friendship becomes stronger.

Couples:

When couples fight, it’s ugly for us to witness. Many times they make up but don’t learn from the argument. It goes on repeat. We, as witnesses, see them have the same argument repeatedly. This continues until they start to really hear each other. When this happens they  can grow as a couple.

Us:

We beings want to think of ourselves as perfect, but we are far from it. If we can not look within ourselves and see our snarky, mean, short tempered, undesirable side (The shadow side). Our journey in this lifetime will be hard when it comes to sharing our lives with other beings. Our shadow side is just as important as our light side. When we accept both sides and coexist with them, we become perfect together. Our journey here on this planet will be easier.

Light side: love-happy-innocent. What we want everyone to see.

Shadow side: pain-anger-trauma. What we don’t want anyone to see.

To be whole we must accept and love both sides of ourselves.

Yin/Yang

– Issa

These are only my thoughts